![]() ![]() I admit to reading the odd, shall we say, flash fiction erotica, but it’s not a genre I ever considered for a literary experience. Sleeping Beauty was my first erotic novel. There were even accusations that this poster couldn’t be for real, but, a quick search of the internets tells me that “ taken in hand” is a thing.Īs I read The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty, I thought about consent quite a bit. ![]() I can consent to sex now, but I can’t give consent for sex that’s going to happen tomorrow. Anyway, Drama Ensued. But is consent still consent when it’s given in advance? How do you get out of this agreement if you want – isn’t it sort of, too bad, you gave your consent, so now what I say goes? To me, consent is rooted in the present tense. The poster said that she gave her husband “blanket consent” for sex, whenever, where ever, and however he wants. However, the definition of consent in this scenario makes me nervous. It doesn’t much concern me what consenting adults do in their homes. And that might mean deciding what car to buy, where to live, or it might mean whether they have sex tonight. ![]() They discuss things, but he has the final say. She has a “taken in hand” marriage, which means her husband calls ALL the shots. When a poster went “undercover” to post about her secret life as a submissive, it caused a bit of a sensation. The posters tend to be married with children or heading that way. I post on a women’s forum that runs very much to the mainstream. ![]()
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